Why Men Paid Me To Bury Them Alive

Why Men Paid Me To Bury Them Alive

Author Jay Cradeur shares how a night buried in Mother Earth can change everything for a man. — Death is the greatest catalyst for change.   I invite you to think about that. The closer one feels death’s long spindly fingers beckoning you toward a new infinity, the...

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9 Little Known Movies That Will Rock Your Masculine World

9 Little Known Movies That Will Rock Your Masculine World

Author Jay Cradeur shares his most influential masculine movies that you probably have not seen.   Each of these hidden gems grossed less than $30 Million. — “I made him an offer he couldn’t refuse.” “I love the smell of napalm in the morning.” “There is no spoon.”...

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The Pearl by Rumi

The Pearl by Rumi

I love this short poem. The Pearl   Everyone is so afraid of death, but the real Sufis just laugh: Nothing tyrannizes their hearts. What strikes the oyster shell doesn't damage the pearl.   Rumi Photo: flickr / Omar Bariffi

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5 Favorite Books that Influenced Me as a Man

5 Favorite Books that Influenced Me as a Man

Author Jay Cradeur shares how Ayn Rand, Carlos Castaneda, and the mystic poet Rumi influenced his masculinity. — Exuberance is defined as being full of energy, of being ebullient, of growing profusely. Feeling this way is a tell tale sign that I am on a path toward...

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9 Ways to Find the Confidence of a King in The Bedroom

9 Ways to Find the Confidence of a King in The Bedroom

Your partner can’t share vulnerability so intimately with anyone else. It’s sacred and one of one of the most powerful gifts a person can offer. — 2013 I decided I wanted to become much better at sex. Like many men, I suffered from the embarrassing and rarely admitted...

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10 Tips To Make That Weekend Getaway Unforgettable.

10 Tips To Make That Weekend Getaway Unforgettable.

This article is featured on the Good Men Project.  Click here to visit the site. There is no doubt that a weekend getaway can provide excitement and adventure and intimacy for a relationship. I noticed, especially with children in the house, when my partner and I took...

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In Praise of Tim Ferriss

In Praise of Tim Ferriss

Many years ago, my good friend David, a very successful business owner, suggested I read a book with the crazy proposition that I could work four hours a week (rather than the forty I was expending) and be just as productive. The book was aptly titled “The 4 Hour...

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Out of Control

Out of Control

Yesterday, I thought I had a stroke. I was walking down a street in Chiang Mai, Thailand, having just gone to my local AIS cell phone office. I will be heading off to Vietnam in a few weeks, and I had questions about maintaining phone service while away. On my way...

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856 Days (Getting lost in your life)

856 Days (Getting lost in your life)

You might ask yourself, how does a guy over stay his visa by 856 days? How does someone come to Thailand on a 60-day tourist visa, and then not leave for nearly 3 years? It is not as uncommon as you might think. As Anthony Bourdain said, “Asia ruined me!” I had to...

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Living Full Out (I’ll sleep when I can.)

Living Full Out (I’ll sleep when I can.)

This blog post is about removing the lies that we carry around which help to sabotage our experience of a rich and full life. I have carried around an idea, a false belief that things should work according to a plan. The idea goes that anything that deviates from the...

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