5 Honest Questions to Ask Yourself About Being Good

“How do you feel about yourself as a man in the world today?” I have been in hundreds of men’s groups and men’s weekend events, sitting in a sacred circle, asking this tough question. My answer and your answer are a good indicator, akin to taking your masculine...

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Are We All Just a Bunch of Robots?

Author Jay Cradeur raises some questions about what we know and what we think we know. — During the past month, I have been driving for both Uber and Lyft. It’s sort of like being a taxi driver and therapist in one job. Driving people around, one begins to notice...

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Music Is This Writer’s Constant Companion

Author Jay Cradeur shares his love of music and it’s influence on the creative process. — I do quite a bit of writing. The truth about writing to which most authors will readily admit is it is often a laborious chore. Sure, there are times in which a rich wave of...

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The One Secret to Get What you Want

Author Jay Cradeur shares what 56 years showed him (so far) about being content with life. — Give them what they want! There, now you have read the punch line. The secret to get what you want is to give them what they want. This is simple advise but not easy to...

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Men, Are You Afraid? You Absolutely Should Be.

Author Jay Cradeur shares the secret to transforming fear of fear to the powerful impact of embracing fear as your teacher. — Perhaps the most important relationship we will have in this lifetime is our relationship with fear.  Fear is that feeling in the pit of our...

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How Looking Death In The Eye Changes A Man

Author Jay Cradeur shares the five searing lessons he learned when he faced death. ––– Seven months ago, I was in the peak of health. At 56 years of age, I had lost 45 pounds, dropping from 235 lbs. to 190 lbs. I had never spent even one night in a hospital. I had no...

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Every Man, Every Day, Should Ask Himself One Question

Author Jay Cradeur shares a moment to moment choice which directly impacts a man’s experience of life and lover. — “Only mystery makes us live. Only mystery.” – Federico García Lorca I am an arrogant bastard. I know this about myself, and I have worked hard to be less...

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